“No man succeeds without a good woman behind him. Wife or mother, if it is both, he is twice blessed indeed.” – Harold Macmillan
Let’s face it, there are no perfect humans in this world, however finding the right woman means that you’ve found someone who’s perfect for you, regardless of her inadequacies. Although there is no clear-cut scientifically proven method to identify a good woman, if you pay attention you will notice some subtle signs that will tell you that being with this girl is probably the best choice you have made in your entire life. So, here are some signs that can help you identify a good woman so that you don’t have to regret letting her go next time.
1. SHE MOTIVATES YOU TO BE A BETTER PERSON.
She emits positive energy making you feel like you’re on top of the world. She does this with subtlety without pushing or imposing on you. Instead, she will be behind you supporting you to achieve your goals and dreams.
A good woman can help you break bad habits or reduce qualities that are not ideal.
2. SHE APPRECIATES YOUR DIFFERENCES.
She’s going to tell you what she thinks straight up but won’t expect you to always agree with it.
A good woman will also respect your opinion and understands that a difference in point of view is essential in a healthy relationship.
She will not drag unrelated issues from the past or in your relationship when you have disagreements. She will clarify herself to explain any confusion. also, she will never force her opinions and beliefs on you.
3. SHE IS YOUR BIGGEST FAN AND CRITIC.
She will easily outdo your best friends when it comes to being your biggest fan. She’s the type of girl who gets excited more than you when new and exciting opportunities come your way. She will be that person who throws you a party when you get promoted or have new milestones to celebrate.
However, she will also be your most sentient critic. She will give you good old fashion honest feedback that may sometimes be painful to hear. But remember, that she is only critical because she knows you can rally and do way better.
4. YOU FEEL LUCKY TO BE WITH HER.
You’ll feel like you’ve hit the relationship jackpot and you find yourself wondering in disbelief that she wants to be with you.
A girl who makes you feel lucky is someone you should definitely settle down with for life.
Even when the romance diminishes, you still feel fortunate to be with a good woman.
According to the book, “How Luck Happens: Using the Science of Luck to Transform Work, Love, and Life,” people who give off a good vibe can maintain a great relationship. So, you really are lucky to have her!
5. SHE DOES NOT SUFFER FROM INSECURITY.
She’s not someone who will get easily jealous or angry if she sees you talking to a woman or a female co-worker.
Rather than try to keep you away, she will make an effort to know the people you hang out with, regardless of their gender.
This is a woman who, deep down, knows your loyalty, and is never insecure about where she stands in your life. She’s not so paranoid that she has to check your phone, emails, and social media accounts.
6. MIND GAMES HIDDEN AGENDAS ARE NOT HER THING.
A good woman won’t manipulate your emotional state to get a reaction from you.
She is not the type who will play games just to make you jealous. She knows that a genuine relationship doesn’t involve tricks and mind games. She’s secure about her place in your life, she has no reason to resort to cheap tricks to get your attention.
However, if she actually has issues, she will not be the one to sit on it either.
7. SHE REGARDS HER AND YOU AS A TEAM.
An ideal woman, even if she has her own goals and aspirations, will always think as a team. She’s a good influence who can keep you grounded and focused. With her, you have a teammate and a partner. You can take on the challenges of the world together.
According to a study in the Journal of Family Theory & Review, couples who can easily switch from thinking as an individual and then as a team can have a long-lasting relationship.
They like to discuss their relationship often and assess where they are, where they are heading, and what issues they have to resolve.
8. SHE IS NOT THE ONE TO BE CLINGY.
She’ll let you have night outs with the boys and won’t make a huge fuss if you get a little late. She is happy for you to spend time with your family or even get to travel to work without her. She’s not concerned that you will change when she gives you space.
9. SHE UNDERSTANDS THE IMPORTANCE OF PHYSICAL INTIMACY.
A study conducted by the Journal of Sex Research discovered that people in good long-term relationships do not have a diminished desire for each other.
When a relationship is maturing, it’s easy to overlook physical intimacy. But a good woman knows that this is important for a relationship no matter how busy you two are. She’ll make an effort to keep things exciting by trying out something new from time to time.
10. SHE EASILY BONDS WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY.
She’s not someone who ruins the connections you have with people in your life. She also doesn’t make it hard for you to balance your relationships with them and with her with unnecessary demands. In return, your family will also love the idea of having her join special occasions because they feel comfortable around her.
You will be pleased and excited to introduce her to your family for the first time. You got nothing to worry because you know she would impress your circle and easily connect with them.